How To get your child to finally listen In 2 days
Without More Scripts, Yelling or Parenting Tips That Collapse Under Stress
You don’t need better techniques. You need a better map — one that explains both your child’s pattern and your own. That’s what unlocks real listening.
Why Work With Me?
1. I've walked the walk
When the stresses of parenting and my children's full-on meltdowns left me melting down along with them, I was desperate for change. I began a journey of understanding the underlying emotional and behavioural wiring of both myself and my children, and unlocked the key to not only fostering respectful listening, but also deepening our bond as a family.
2. Certified EQ Coach & Profiler
As a seasoned facilitator, coach and speaker, I combine a decade of experience from the Education & Training space with my EQ Coaching & Personality Profiling expertise to help navigate our inner world with clarity. I now devote my energy to both my own relentless self-improvement and partnering with others as they navigate their parenting journey and their own paths to authentic self mastery.
3. Podcaster, Author & Content Creator
What began as a passion project during my corporate tenure evolved into a mission to create easy-to-consume resources for parents and individuals committed to both effective parenting and personal mastery. I created:
The Eq-xperimental Parent Podcast, sharing actionable insights from my EQ and parenting journey
Miss Mindful Book Series (3 children's books) for parents to co-regulate big emotions with their young children
Emotionergy, my IG and TikTok accounts where I share content around the concept of emotional energy.
Why the inner pattern
sync™ (IPS) method?
1. The Inner Pattern is the key to listening
If your child isn’t listening, it’s not because they’re bad. It’s because their inner pattern isn’t understood. Techniques bounce off the surface. But once you learn their blueprint, resistance fades, and they open up.
2. synchronising patterns works even if you've tried everything
Most parents come in saying, “I’ve read the books, done the scripts — nothing works.” Because tips don’t work when your patterns collide. You’ll finally see the invisible conflict behind every shutdown, meltdown, and repeated instruction.
3. this method scales your patience, peace and connection
The Inner Pattern Synchronisation Method™ isn’t another parenting trick. It’s a diagnostic system that helps you decode both your child’s emotional wiring and your own — so you can end the power struggles, fast-track cooperation, and actually enjoy parenting again.
WHY JOIN THE CLASS?
Here's what parents who have gone through the programme say:
Anna
Mother of 1, Aged 5
“We’re not yelling anymore. We’re dancing.”
Before this, Anna had tried every parenting book she could get her hands on. Her 5-year-old son refused to listen unless she repeated herself 10 times or lost her temper. In the 3-day intensive, she discovered their patterns were mirroring each other’s triggers. Once she adjusted her tone and pace to match his pattern, the nightly battles disappeared. Now? They cook together. She asks once. He listens.
Jason
Father of 1, Aged 6
“I finally understood myself as a parent.”
Jason was the ‘Fix-It’ parent. His daughter was sensitive and slow to warm. He kept trying to coach her through meltdowns. It only made things worse. Inside the programme, he learned why her pauses triggered his urgency, and how his inner blueprint made him escalate. Now he leads with calm instead of control, and she’s become more open, confident, and connected.
Sofia
Mother of 2, Aged 3 and 9
“We were in tears — in a good way.”
Sofia and her partner joined feeling like failures. But seeing their daughter’s pattern, and their own laid out side by side made them feel seen. It wasn’t about blame anymore. It was about patterns. “I completed the programme feeling hopeful for the first time in years.”
join us for a free 2-hour webINAR via zoom
19 jan 2026 sgt 8:00pm
In this discovery experience, you'll learn…
Why your child really “doesn’t listen” — and it’s not misbehaviour
Personality and Pattern Archetypes and how to decode your child's and yours
What happens when yours and your child's patterns collide — and how to fix it
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